Although I am not a parent, I believe the following words are some of the I wisest I have ever read about parenting. That is why I would like to share this advice it with you.
You're raising future adults, not eternal children. Every problem you solve for them is a strength they don't develop. Every consequence you prevent is a lesson they don't learn. Every struggle you remove is resilience they don't build. Through resistance, not rescue.
- Scott Clary
It isn't easy buying a parent these day. Children have to develop independence. They have to be allowed to make their own mistakes and learn from them. It is impossible to protect your children from everything. They have to face the world on their own terms. They can't be what their parents want them to be. That is why they should be accepted for who they are. Too many parents try to live vicariously through their children. Assist them but don't control them, or they will end up resenting you. When they falter, be there for them, but don't rescue them. As difficult as it sometimes may be, allow them choose their own path. They will appreciate you for that.
- Joanne
